Lalita’s Year in Review 2020
Wow. What a shit show. Have you become more desensitized to chaos, like I have? Did 2020 really happen? Well, despite it all, this introvert wants to celebrate with you…
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Lalita’s Year in Review: 2018 & 2019
So, I skipped a year. It happens. I always feel a little ashamed when it happens, but alas I don’t let it bother me too much. What’s more potently true is that I get so excited when I start to feel the pull to this familiar practice again. I have loved looking over my last…
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Lalita’s Year in Review: 2017
So many things define a year. This year March-August, I was possibly the most miserable I have ever been. This is because of a gallbladder surgery, severe depression, and most surprisingly, being misdiagnosed for over 20 years with unipolar depression rather than bipolar type 2 depression. I’m so grateful to be on the other side. On…
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Is Second Date Sex the New Norm?
What does a first kiss mean these days? Picture this. You are on a first day. It’s going so well. You have a ridiculous amount of things in common. The humor is flowing. You are starting to understand in your body that you would like to kiss and touch this person some time in the…
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The One. The Many.
the wonder the aching awe of connection in motion chemical tendrils of afffection and harmonious humor an enlivening of the skin a widening of the eyes we meet in a resonant river in the waters of infinite possiblity let’s flow together baby are you ready to be my one to be my many?
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#MeToo. Date Raped. Again.
About a week after I published my #MeToo blog, I was date raped. I imagine some activists hate the term “date rape,” as it somehow softens the violation. But in this case, this term feels good and accurate for me to use. This was a Tinder date gone wrong. The day-long texting and the first…
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Wild, Open and Free
If you bow down in devotion, her rewards are infinite. if you demonstrate your healthy mind body and breath in shiva stance grounded, open, vast, seamless her veil lifts her portal ignites her passion heals and your surrender buries in her thighs with glee and delight Honor, respect Like family, a human family One which…
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#METOO
I want to tell you my #metoo story. I feel trepidatious about this, as I’m sure many of you may have as you bravely revealed your stories of both traumatization and/or victimization in the realm of sexual assault, abuse and harassment. On the first day #metoo launched, I automatically shared the original post, “If all…
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Take it All
What is that conquering force That drive to dominate save one’s self one’s people one’s land Ownership claimed. Game over. Everyone fight Protect what’s yours! What’s yours? What’s yours?! You belong to you, my friend And that is where it ends
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Desert Ritual
The Desert. Is it dead or alive? Traditionally the desert and I haven’t been friends. I prefer lush greenery, flowing rivers and the moist breath of mama ocean. But last night, I attended one of my best friend’s weddings. The wedding altar overlooked the vast and spacious landscape of Joshua Tree just as day blossomed…
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