The second I titled my last year in review piece, “2012: The Most Transformative Year Yet,” I wondered if I was setting myself up for failure somehow, like maybe 2013 wouldn’t be very life changing or on the other hand, maybe I could keep the same title every year and it would still ring as…

How does one express in writing the grandiose statement, “This was the most transformative year of my life,” without using the word amazing 25 times or sounding like a total love child? Well, it just isn’t possible. So here it goes: My 10 most AMAZING, life-altering learnings about love from 2012: 1. COMMUNITY. I want…

Someone told me today, this first day of 2012, that I had the right to be more full of myself. That people might not know what I am capable of because I can come off as kind of quiet and unassuming. The night previous, I had dinner with some new lovers who were remarking at how confident…